The Experience 5: Don’t Stay Down

The Experience 5: Don’t Stay Down


There comes a time when life throws its weight against you and you are left with two options: keep fighting or just let life have its way. You are left to decide whether to accept fate or refuse to be down.

I had a relatively poor result in my 3rd year of university education and I went back to the drawing board. I switched on the imaginary DVD in my mind and clicked on “My life – 18 months ago”. I chose to watch it in black and white because I had to make some changes. I noted some areas I needed to improve, some actions I needed to take and some paths I needed to avoid. I denied myself of a lot of secular needs in order to make amends for the poor form. I was walking a tight rope and I needed to be top notch to navigate back to my initially desired goal. Things went further south after taking these actions – the next result was worse, my worst. It was a tough time for me.


In the Bible, the widow at Zarephath gave her last bread to Elijah and God gave her ceaseless blessings to take care of Elijah, the widow and her son (I Kings 17).

And it came to pass after these things, that the son of the woman, the mistress of the house, fell sick; and his sickness was so sore, that there was no breath left in him. – I Kings 17:17

Sadly, she must have been mad at Elijah and may have even questioned if he was a prophet of God. Sometimes we are tempted to question God, our faith and his deeds. But Elijah restored her son back to life.

And Elijah took the child and brought him down out of the chamber into the house, and delivered him unto his mother: and Elijah said, see, thy son liveth. And the woman said to Elijah, Now by this I know that thou art a man of God, and that the word of the Lord in thy mouth is truth – I Kings 17:23-24

A time comes when you put in your very best, and you get the worst of results. You tarry with the Lord, make atonements, give alms, bring smile to people, win souls for Christ, finish a 40 days dry fasting, sow seeds of faith and the 9 yards but the immediate result has every adornment of discouragement. You begin to question and ponder. Doubt sets in and the will to do more begins to dwindle.

Sometimes you do everything right but that lecturer refuses to treat you fairly. You tick all the boxes but you are not chosen, you have the best of interviews but you are not invited for medicals, you fulfil all righteousness but the goal is missed. Do you give up and stop trying?

The three Hebrew lads were thrown to the hottest of flames for refusing to bow to the gods of Babylon. They didn’t stop worshipping God, they continued. Daniel was thrown into the dungeon for praying to God. Could he have suspended his prayers? Maybe he asked God “why?” or he believed that it was all for good and for the glory of God.

Joseph was disliked by his siblings and sold out to Egypt. He found his way to prison because he refused to what was wrong in the sight of the Lord. He tarried in prison but it was all for good. It must have been the lowest moment of his life.

The widow got her son back, Daniel had a pillow made of lions and was restored. The three Hebrew lads were elevated, Joseph became the prime minister and I had my best result the following year. Worth it?

So Friends, don’t let the bad results of today refrain you from making efforts in reaching your goal. God understands when you ask “Why?” but can you answer his questions in Job 38-41? You must believe that he is in charge and everything was created for him. Don’t just fold your hand and accept defeat. Don’t just accept that poor result and wallow in agony. The milk is spilt, stop crying over it.

For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again – Proverb 24:16

The low moment is not a period to continue in sin, nor a time to flee from the presence of God. The temptation is there to do as the world especially seeing positive results of their ways. Remember, there is always light at the end of tunnel as far as you are in Christ. Don’t stop praying, don’t stop worshipping, and don’t just stop. Rise up and give it another try.


Chibuzor Amos is a graduate of Chemical Engineering from the prestigious Federal University of Technology, Owerri and currently a technical professional in an oil firm. He blogs at Soccergunz and Amoscp’s blog.





Pipe flow simply refers to liquid flow within a closed conduit. E.g. a pipe connecting water from a tank to your kitchen tap.

Every Christian wants to be like a pipe or channel through which Jesus flows from their hearts to the world. Remember this hymn:

Channels only, blessed Master /But with all Thy wondrous pow’r /Flowing through us, Thou canst use us /Every day and every hour.

We all want to impact others positively. We want to contribute to a change that is bigger than any of us. But how does this work in principle? What is the technical requirement for Jesus to flow like a fluid from our lives to the people around us. Let’s take a look at fluid dynamics.

Energy in a pipe flow is expressed as ‘head’ or ‘head pressure’ and this is defined by the Bernoulli’s principle.

Bernoulli’s principle states that an increase in the speed of a fluid occurs simultaneously with a decrease in pressure or a decrease in the fluid’s potential energy. VenturiFlow

Now, this principle also works hand in hand with the law of conservation of energy which states that the total sum of energy changes in a system is always constant. That is, the sum of kinetic energy, potential energy and internal energy changes along a steady flow streamline remains constant.

Therefore, if the speed of the fluid increases (i.e. an increase in its kinetic energy and dynamic pressure = ρv2/2), it is accompanied by a decrease in the sum of its static pressure (P), potential energy and internal energy.

Total pressure = Static pressure + Dynamic pressure

Check this analogy from Wikipedia:

If a small volume of fluid is flowing horizontally from a region of high pressure to a region of low pressure, there is more pressure behind than in front. This gives a net force on the volume, accelerating the fluid along the streamline.

Meaning: The more of Jesus I have on the inside of my heart, the higher the dynamic pressure and kinetic energy of my faith and the higher the velocity of the flow of Jesus from my life and the force of my impact. Glory!

For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill His good purpose. (Philippians 2:13)

For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing. (II Corinthians 2:15)

Friend, I don’t know about you, but I need Jesus. I need more and more of Him in my heart until he takes over me and overtakes me and overwhelms me and overflows from me. Lol! Wow! I think you also need him. Let’s press in. Read more about God from the Bible. Pray fervently from your heart. Seek to feel his presence with every passing minute. Run away from every sin, friend and habit that displeases God. If you have less of Jesus, your dynamic pressure and fluid velocity will decrease and I’m afraid that your static pressure will increase and I only hope that it does not reach the stagnation pressure which means, no flow. That will not be the portion of any of us in Jesus’ name. Amen.

He must increase, but I must decrease. (John 3:30)

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